如何擺脫「嫉妒心」這種痛苦，掌握兩個方法
探討信箱的弟兄姊妹：
你們好！我叫Ella，最近我遇到了煩心事。我和Susan姊妹曾是教會裡要好的同工，但她講道比我好，並得到了弟兄姊妹的高看，為此我心裡嫉妒Susan，暗地裡跟她較上了勁。一有時間我就背誦聖經名章名句，但到講道時，還是不如她講得好。原來我唱詩歌比她好，但上場發揮得也不如Susan，我對Susan的嫉妒更加深了，認為是她搶了我的風頭，使我不能得到弟兄姊妹的高看。從此，我有意遠離、躲避Susan，不願和她在一起作工、探討問題了。我也整天悶悶不樂，無心讀經、作工了，我心裡也知道嫉妒人不好，心裡痛苦不說，還傷害了別人，我也不想這樣，但不知怎樣才能擺脫嫉妒啊，渴望能得到你們的幫助。https://reurl.cc/n4NdX
Ella姊妹
親愛的Ella姊妹：
主內平安！
看到你因著被嫉妒心捆綁，不得釋放，我們非常能理解你的心情，因我們也有過同樣的經歷，也曾經為「如何擺脫嫉妒」這個問題而困惑過。那今天我們就一塊兒來尋求一下解決嫉妒這個頑疾的路途吧。
認識嫉妒心理產生的根源
姊妹，我們都知道解決問題要先找到問題的根源，這樣才能從根本上解決，那我們先來看看人與人之間產生嫉妒的原因是什麼。神的話說：「殘酷的人類啊！勾心鬥角、你爭我奪、爭名奪利、互相廝殺何時到頭？儘管神的話語說了千千萬，但人無有醒悟的……有幾個不為自己個人的利益？有幾個不為維護自己的地位而壓制別人、排斥別人？」「有些人總怕別人出頭露面高過他，總怕別人得到賞識自己被埋沒，就因此打擊、排斥別人，這是不是嫉賢妒能？這是不是自私卑鄙？這是什麼性情？這就是惡毒！只考慮自己，只滿足自己的私慾，不考慮別人的本分，只考慮自己的利益，不考慮神家利益……」
神為我們揭示了嫉妒的根源，就是因為我們本性太狂妄、名利地位心太重導致的。受「人往高處走，水往低處流」「出人頭地」「高居人上」等撒但錯誤思想觀點的薰陶，我們就誤認為在人群中有地位，能高於別人，讓人都高看羨慕，這樣活著才風光，有價值。所以，我們不管在哪個人群中，都在考慮是否能出頭露臉、讓人高看，處處都想與人爭高低，不想低於別人。一旦看到有人比我們強，讓我們的臉面、地位受到損失時，我們就會嫉妒別人、恨別人，跟別人爭比，活在痛苦中不得釋放。比不過時，我們還會惱羞成怒、做出傷害人的事來，根本不考慮別人的感受，也不會考慮教會的利益。追求名利地位使我們產生嫉妒心，變得自私惡毒、心胸狹窄，對別人沒有絲毫愛心，也不會體貼神的心意，只想著滿足個人的私慾，這根本就不是條正道，給自己帶來的都是痛苦。
就像你和Susan之間，自從你發現她在講道方面比你強，得到了弟兄姊妹的擁護、高看時，你就不甘心，也想臉面風光，得到弟兄姊妹的高看，為了達到這個目的，你努力裝備自己，與Susan比試高低，但當最終我們的地位心總也得不到滿足時，我們心裡就憋屈、難受，活得壓抑、痛苦，心靈受煎熬。這一切的痛苦都是我們追求名利地位導致的，是撒但的這些錯謬觀點種在我們心裡，讓我們把反面事物當成正面事物，這是我們嫉妒人的根本所在啊！https://reurl.cc/n4NdX
擺脫嫉妒的兩個方法
當我們找到嫉妒的根源後，那接下來應該怎樣實行才能不再受它控制呢？仔細閱讀以下兩點，並操練進入。
第一，轉變看事的心態，把嫉妒變成向別人學習
生命進入的交通講道中說：「有人說：『我看見教會裡有一個弟兄（姊妹）比我好、比我高，我就嫉妒，然後我就消極、就軟弱。』那你非得嫉妒他幹什麼呀？你把嫉妒改羨慕不就行了嗎。嫉妒容不容易改成羨慕？你就往寬處琢磨：『他好還不好嗎？他好咱們有榜樣了，咱們能從他身上得著益處，他比咱們強，咱們有些事不明白咱向他學，這不又多一條路嗎！……』」
生命進入的交通講道給我們指出了實行路途，就是看誰有本事，比我們強，我們不應該嫉妒，而應該贊成、佩服，向別人學習，這才是正確的心態。神在我們身邊安排一個比我們優秀的人，我們吸取他身上的長處，補足自己的短處，我們就能少走不少彎路，長進還快，這是偏得，是神的恩待與祝福，何樂而不為呢？
Ella，就像你和Susan之間，Susan講道有亮光，能解決弟兄姊妹的問題，我們就把Susan講道的亮光吸取過來，彌補自己的不足，這樣咱們不就得著更多了嗎？這是神對咱們的恩待啊！如果神在我們身邊安排一些什麼都比自己差的人，那我們跟誰學東西呀？在那樣的環境中我們長進就慢，還容易狂妄自大、自滿自足，活在墮落的敗壞性情中。咱們換一個角度看問題，就能發現，神在我們身邊擺設一個比我們強的弟兄姊妹，這是神對我們的愛，是為了讓我們得到更多、收穫滿滿。https://reurl.cc/n4NdX
第二，守住自己的本位，各盡功用
我們還得明白神給每一個人的特長都不一樣，每一個人的功用也不一樣，神只希望咱們守住自己的本位，盡好受造之物的本分，咱們每個人如果能做到這一點，就都能得到神的稱許。就如神的話說：「功用不一樣，身體只有一個，各盡其職，坐在自己位上盡上全力，有一份熱發一份光，追求生命成熟，我就滿足了。」神是造物的主，神對待每個人都是公平公義的，神給咱們每一個人所命定的該盡的功用不一樣，神的心意是希望咱們在神所命定好的位置上盡上全力來滿足神，這樣神心就滿足了。就如在教會裡，有搞接待的、有傳福音的、有做帶領的，也有普通信徒，只要我們追求真理，追求生命長大，那在神眼中我們都是平等的，不分誰高誰低。
就如你和Susan在一起配搭事奉，Susan擅長講道，咱們可以讓她多和弟兄姊妹交通真理，讓大家在生命上有所長進，這是好事；你擅長唱歌，那就多教弟兄姊妹詩歌，和大家一起用詩歌來見證神，這樣你們兩個在一起配搭作工，各人發揮各人的功用，互相補足，這是多麼完美的結合啊！
不知以上的交通，能不能給姊妹帶來一些實際的幫助？希望姊妹能早日擺脫嫉妒人的情形，跟Susan姊妹和好，共同配搭把各自的本分盡好。
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